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Genealogist and Historian
Hi, I am Stephen Philip Howard Frakes, and I am presently living in Salem, Marion County, in the Great State of Illinois. I lived my youth in Springfield, Illinois, the Capital of Illinois and the home town of Abraham Lincoln. I was born the 2nd of October, 1957 in Highland, Madison County, Illinois. My parents were living in Edwardsville at the time. I love the photo at right. It is of my father, Philip Howard Frakes, me and my grandfather, William Philip Frakes.
When I was a Freshman in high school, attending Southeast High in Springfield, my family moved to Marion County, where they were raised. I then attended Kinmundy-Alma High School in Kinmundy, Illinois the rest of my freshman year and my sophmore year. I then went to Patoka High School in Patoka, Illinois for my junior and senior year, graduating there in 1975.
Because of my love of history, I was appointed to the Salem Historical-Patriotical Commission, by Mayor Leonard Ferguson, and remained there for several years, serving in the capacity of chairman and also of Secretary. I served as Secretary-Treasurer of the William Jennings Bryan Memorial Committee. I have been a member of the Marion County Genealogical & Historical Society since the 1970's.
In 1999, I moved to Cottonwood, Arizona. I moved to Arizona to help a friend Darrell Lundberg, who was also originally from Illinois, open his store, Seasons Party Shoppe.
From there I worked at "Crossroads Youth Shelter" in Cottonwood. Working as a Behavioral Health Specialist with kids ages 12 to 17, inclusive. It was the best job I ever had. I not only felt like I was accomplishing something, but I really enjoyed working with the teens. I hated to leave that job, but the new management made it a terrible place to work. Unfortunately, that new managment ran the shelter into the ground and it was closed. I really miss all of my kids from the shelter. None of them are kids anymore, but they will always be my kids. You can see some of my kids on one of my Verde Valley, Arizona Friends Web Pages at: Verde Valley, Arizona Friends 03. My other Verde Valley, Arizona Friends can be found on the following web pages: Verde Valley, Arizona Friends 01; Verde Valley, Arizona Friends 02; and Sedona, Arizona friends at: My Sedona Friends.
I then began working at Los Abrigados Lodge in Uptown Sedona. It is affiliated with Los Abrigados Resort and Spa, which is located on the original property of Sedona Schnebly, the founding mother of Sedona.
On 2 Oct 2002, I arrived back in Salem, Illinois to help out my mom with my dad, who was ill from Scleroderma, which was affecting his lungs. Sadly, my dad crossed over at home on Friday, 16th of September, 2005. We all still miss him terribly. My mom crossed over on 29th of September 2019. Her loss is beyond measure.
Pertaining to religious matters, I was a member of Temple Solomon in Centralia, Illinois, a small Reform Jewish Temple, until I moved to Arizona. In Sedona, I observed the high holidays with my very good friends, Fred and Audrey Dorfman and their son Nathan and other friends. We usually observed the Passover Seder with friends in Flagstaff and Break-the-fast (Ending of Yom Kippur) at the Dorfman's in Sedona. It was always a good time with good friends. While living in Arizona I came to the realization that one does not need organized religion to be spiritual. God is not a religion. Religions are man-made. I therefore feel no need to attend an organized religion, but do on occasion. Temple Solomon in Centralia was sold in 2004 because there were so few members who were left in the area.
In photo above, left to right: Audrey Dorfman, Stephen Frakes and Fred Dorfman at Los Abrigados Resort & Spa in Sedona, Arizona. In photo at right: Me, Stephen Frakes, at Temple Solomon, Centralia, Illinois.
Besides working, I kept busy in Arizona as Vice President of the V.V.A.L.C. and doing the OUT 'N About web page for them, as well as the newsletter, "Closet Times". It is the glbt organization of the Verde Valley. After moving back to Salem, Illinois, I started L.A.G.O.S.I. (Lesbians and Gays of Southern Illinois), which was an active group for a few years, but had to stop being involved because of my health.
Religion: Reform Judaism; Native American Spirituality; The Law of One.
Season: Autumn. I love the freshness and the color.
I was born 2 October 1957, Highland, Madison County, Illinois, the son of the greatest parents in the world, Colonel Philip H. and Monna Marilyn (Conant) Frakes.
I have two sisters, Tanya Rae (Frakes)(Courtright) Belfiore of Salem, Illinois and Terri June (Mrs. Richard Dale "Rick" Adams of Adams Farm, rural Patoka, Illinois. I have five nephews: Nathan Roddy Alan Courtright, Trent Maurice Adams, Brock Richard Adams, David Philip Anthony Belfiore and Daniel William Eli Belfiore.
My father was born and raised in Salem, and my mother was born and raised in the Kinmundy-Alma area, in Foster Township. My father has been involved in many organizations, including the Lions Club, Shriners and has held appointed and elected positions including the Salem Zoning Commission and Republican Central Committeeman, including Chairman of the Marion County Republican Central Committee, and has served on several state boards including Military Aide to former Governors Jim Edgar and George Ryan.
My nephew, Nathan, is married to a lovely gal named Angie Jaye (Albert)(Riley) Courtright. They were married in September of 1999 and live in Salem, Illinois. Angie is a school teacher and Nathan is employed with the State of Illinois as an officer at a prison in Vandalia, Illinois. Nathan graduated and received his bachelors degree in law enforcement in December, 2004, Eastern Illinois University. Nathan served in the United States Marine Corp and saw action in Somalia. Nathan and Angie had their first child together on Friday, 29 March 2002, Breese, Clinton County, Illinois. She was named Madison Jaye "Maddie" Courtright. So now I am a great-uncle. :) Angie also has a daughter by a previous marriage who I consider to be my niece, Jillian Rebecca "Jill" Riley. They also adopted Amelia "Millie" adding another niece to my family. Jill is now married to Adam Wilkins and the have an adorable son.
My mother's side of the family has been in Marion County, Illinois since 1830, when Airs Conant, Esquire and his wife, Mary "Polly" (Pepper) Conant, settled here. He was a school teacher, Justice of the Peace and a farmer.
Seated left to right: Daniel William Eli Belfiore, Monna Marilyn (Conant) Fakes, Philip Howard Frakes, Terri June (Frakes) Adams, Trent Maurice Adams.
Standing left to right: Brock Richard Adams, David Philip Anthony Belfiore (in back), Nathan Roddy Alan Courtright, Richard Dale Adams, and Stephen Philip Howard Frakes.
This is my family's home in Salem, Illinois. It is the oldest home in Salem. Built in 1842 for Rev. Benjamin F. & Mary Putnam (Rand) Lemen, who were great supporters of human rights, women's, Native
Americans, and African Americans rights. My great-grandparents, Julius and Anna (Maier) Merten, were the first of my family to own the home. They moved into the home in 1909. Then in 1941, my grandparents, William Philip and Beatrice Margaret Julietta (Merten) Frakes, became the owners of the house. My parents, Philip Howard and Monna Marilyn (Conant) Frakes, took ownership in 1981. This photo was taken in the Spring of 1994.
